BEWARE OF COUNTER OFFERS

You’ve been approached by another company and offered a position with growth potential and a moderate increase in compensation. You have gone through the interviewing process and have received a fine offer, a better opportunity from a better company. You have analyzed and agonized over the decision to leave a good (or bad) job for what could be a better one, and have accepted (or decided to accept) the offer.

However, upon resigning, your current boss asks you to stay and has made you a counteroffer.

Career changes are tough enough as it is, and anxieties about leaving a comfortable job, friends and location and having to reprove yourself again in an unknown opportunity can cloud the best logic. But just because the new position is a little scary doesn't mean it's not a positive move. Since counteroffers can create confusion and buyer's remorse, you should understand what's being cast upon you.

 Counteroffers are typically made in conjunction with some form of flattery, e.g.:

Counteroffers usually take the form of:

more money
a promotion/more responsibility
a modified reporting structure
promises or future considerations
disparaging remarks about the new company or job
guilt trips

Of course, since we all prefer to think we're #1, it's natural to want to believe these manipulative appeals, but beware!!! Accepting a counteroffer is often the wrong choice. THINK ABOUT IT; If you were worth "X" yesterday, why are they suddenly willing to pay you "X + n " today, when you weren't expecting a raise any time soon?

Also consider how you've felt when someone resigned from your staff. The reality is that employers don't like to be "FIRED". Your boss is likely concerned that he'll look bad, his career may suffer. Bosses are judged in part, by their ability to retain staff. Your leaving may jeopardize an important project, increase workload for others or even foul up vacation schedules. It's never a good time for someone to quit. It may prove time consuming and costly to replace you. It's much cheaper to keep you, even at a slightly higher salary. And it would be better to fire you later, in the company's time frame.

Accepting a counteroffer can have numerous negative consequences. Consider:

Where did the additional money or responsibility you'd get come from? Was it your next raise or promotion - just given early? Will you be limited in the future? Will you have to threaten to quit in order to get your next raise? Might a cheaper replacement be sought out?

You've demonstrated your unhappiness or lack of blind loyalty, and will be perceived as having committed blackmail to gain a raise. You won't ever be considered a team player again. Many employers will hold a grudge at the next review period, and you may be placed at the top of the next reduction-in-force "hit list".

Apart from a short-term, band-aid treatment, nothing will change within the company. After the dust settles from this upheaval, you'll be in the same old rut. A rule of thumb among recruiters is that more than 80% of those accepting counteroffers leave, or are terminated, within six to 12 months, anyway. Half of those who do succumb reinitiate their job searches with 90 days.

Finally, when making your decisions, look at your current job and the new position as if you were unemployed. Which opportunity holds the most real potential? Probably the new one, or you wouldn't have accepted it in the first place.

 *Part of the above material was taken from an article by R. Gaines Baty

which appeared in the National Business Employment Weekly.

they may beg you to stay now... and give you the boot later

10.Once the word gets out, the relationship that you now enjoy with your co-workers will never be the same. You will lose the personal satisfaction of peer group acceptance.